Why Natural Child birth is the Norm

The more we know about birth, the easier it is to lose sight of how well designed and simple birth actually is.

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The one thing people seem to misunderstand is that  the pain of the contractions in labor is valuable. It actually helps Us find our own ways of facilitating birth. The pain of each contraction becomes a guide for the laboring mother. The positions and activities she chooses in response to what she feels actually help labor progress by increasing the strength and efficiency of the contractions and encouraging the baby to settle in and move down. When the pain is entirely removed, the feedback system is disrupted and labor is likely to slow down and become less efficient. As labor progresses and pain increases, endorphins are released, and create a dream-like state, which actually helps Us manage the tasks of birthing. As labor progresses we become much less aware and, at the same time, much more focused on the work of labor, and are able to tap into an inner wisdom

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Processed with Rookie Cam

We moves in response to what we feel. .

With our  baby in her arms, we are engrossed, excited, at peace, proud, and astounded at the miracle we have produced. No one tells you what to do. We know what to do because our journey has physically and emotionally prepared them both for this moment.936577_380781085400736_1023518222_n 1533781_397798507032327_78242836_n

-Julia

road trip

from the blog www.stuckincustoms.com
 So I’m going out of town this weekend so i thought ill write some write some tips and tricks for a small road trip. I always over pack when it comes cause the last thing i want is to have to run and find a store in a town  I dont know well. So just pack more then you have to cause you will never know when you need something, when you have two little ones.

Bring a little potty if you have a little one still learning to use the potty. I dont do this im lucky my little girl will go in the grass or on the side of the road. Bring a little potty cause it may be a must for some parents. Put some water in it just in case they have to poop.

Of course bring snacks, I like to pack grapes apples bananas and chips just enough to kind of get us bye for at least a good hour or more and of course I pack water. I pack just enough that way when the time is right we can stop and walk around for about a good 30 min use the potty and get some more snacks if needed and of course put gas in the car and throw some trash away.

So a long car ride means “mommy are we there yet” or one of my favorites “mom im bored.” So what i do is bring toys i know they will play with some books and some good music i know my kids like to dance to. Another thing i like to do is play i spy or did you hear that? those are fun games and I sing the days of the week for my daughter and some other songs. My son likes to spot air planes so I always keep my eye out for a couple.

~Stormie.

7 weeks Pregnant

  
Here we are again, another beautiful week with so much change!

I’m just going to jump right in to symptoms, Nausous; pretty much all the time now. Headaches everyday but since I’m Prego I can’t take anything for it due to the risks to baby, I am thankful for my oils though I use Young Living for headaches and drinking tons of water, and keeping away from my phone helps a lot too.

Food cravings! 

I never believed people when they would say they got cravings early in pregnancy, didn’t have cravings till after 20weeks with both my kids Tobasco with my first and sand with my second. So maybe it’s not REAL cravings but I do get images that PPP in my head of food and I have to eat it 😁 

Salads are my fav right now and fruit ( not apples, not bananas) meat makes me sick and I can’t really eat heavy foods. Soups are also a fav right now. Keeping it light and fresh makes my tummy happy.  

 
That’s my close up of my baby Blueberry a little bigger each week!

No weight gain still, and I keep forgetting to measureEeek

I’ve made my Midwife apt at our Birthing center and will be having my first apt Oct 2nd.

We have not yet decided if we want to know the gender or not.

-Julia  

Benefits of Breastfeeding

  When i was little all I really seen growing up was women bottle-feeding their babies, the onlytime I seen a woman breastfeed was my mother and she never spoke about it, and today when I ask her she said she never knew about the benefits; breastfeeding just felt natural. But it wasn’t just in public, but all over the tv and in movies. you never seen a woman feeding her own child from breasts. giving that life source. I always said I could wait to bottle feed m own babies some day. “no i wasn’t breastfeeding” i would say with nose stuck up in a very disturbed way.

The day I found out I was pregnant I decided i wanted my little girl to have the very best of everything, I wanted to give her the best start in this nasty world. But honestly i didn’t know what that meant, so I began to study RESEARCH I started following mommy blogs and reading mommy books, and they were the basic ones, but then one woman spoke out about chemicals in formula and benefits to this and that and talked about a Facebook group called Crunch mamas?? I was now very confused with this title Crunchy and interested to know more about these unsafe chemicals and how they would effect my baby. Long story shot My eyes were opened for the first time, my life changed and I myself became A crunchy mama! so here is why I chose to Breastfeed my first, second and plan to breastfeed my third baby and never give not even an ounce of formula. 

 1st id like to say the benefits go past 2yrs. I’ve heard so many mamas weening their babies as soon as 6months or a year and I never understood why. but then realized no one ever told them the benefits or why its so important, so I hope this helps a mommy out.

If you’d like to learn more on Breastfeeding than what I posted here please check out this link

Lower rates of childhood obesity, decreased incidence of asthma and even better brain development are all linked with drinking more of mother’s milk in infancy, and despite decades of research and promising marketing claims, the formula industry has not caught up to mothers milk. Breastfed babies have higher IQ scores, this is not something moms say to be proud but its actual science! feel free to google this and do all the research you need. we make smarter babies!

  All babies need to be held. Studies have shown that premature babies are more likely to die if they are not held or stroked. There is no more comforting feeling for an infant of any age than being held close and cuddled while breastfeeding. While many bottle-feeding parents are aware of the importance of cradling their babies while offering the bottle, some are not. Even for parents with good intentions, there is always the temptation to prop up a bottle next to the child, or, when the baby is a little older, to let the child hold his/her own bottle and sit alone. This is emotionally unsatisfying to baby, and can be dangerous physically.

  Human milk contains two types of proteins: whey and casein. Approximately 60% is whey, while 40% is casein. This balance of the proteins allows for quick and easy digestion. If artificial milk, also called formula, has a greater percentage of casein, it will be more difficult for the baby to digest. Approximately 60-80% of all protein in human milk is whey protein. These proteins have great infection-protection properties.

Listed below are specific proteins that are found in breast milk and their benefits:

Lactoferrin inhibits the growth of iron-dependent bacteria in the gastrointestinal tract. This inhibits certain organisms, such as coliforms and yeast, that require iron.
Secretory IgA also works to protect the infant from viruses and bacteria, specifically those that the baby, mom, and family are exposed to. It also helps to protect against E. Coli and possibly allergies. Other immunoglobulins, including IgG and IgM, in breast milk also help protect against bacterial and viral infections. Eating fish can help increase the amount of these proteins in your breast milk.
Lysozyme is an enzyme that protects the infant against E. Coli and Salmonella. It also promotes the growth of healthy intestinal flora and has anti-inflammatory functions.
Bifidus factor supports the growth of lactobacillus. Lactobacillus is a beneficial bacteria that protects the baby against harmful bacteria by creating an acidic environment where it cannot survive.

Human milk also contains fats that are essential for the health of your baby. It is necessary for brain development, absorption of fat-soluble vitamins, and is a primary calorie source. Long chain fatty acids are needed for brain, retina, and nervous system development. They are deposited in the brain during the last trimester of pregnancy and are also found in breast milk.

  The amount and types of vitamins in breast milk is directly related to the mother’s vitamin intake. This is why it is essential that she gets adequate nutrition, including vitamins. Fat-soluble vitamins, including vitamins A, D, E, and K, are all vital to the infant’s health.

Water-soluble vitamins such as vitamin C, riboflavin, niacin, and panthothenic acid are also essential. Because of the need for these vitamins, many healthcare providers and lactation consultants will have nursing mothers continue on prenatal vitamins.

Lactose is the primary carbohydrate found in human milk. It accounts for approximately 40% of the total calories provided by breast milk. Lactose helps to decrease the amount of unhealthy bacteria in the stomach, which improves the absorption of calcium, phosphorus, and magnesium. It helps to fight disease and promotes the growth of healthy bacteria in the stomach.

Breast milk has the perfect combination of proteins, fats, vitamins, and carbohydrates. There is nothing better for the health of your baby. Leukocytes are living cells that are only found in breast milk. They help fight infection. It is the antibodies, living cells, enzymes, and hormones that make breast milk ideal. These cannot be added to formula.

Though some women ultimately are not able to breastfeed, many who think they cannot actually are able to breastfeed. Lactation consultants are able to provide support to women learning to breastfeed. For those who are not able to breastfeed, milk banks or donor milk may be an alternative.

  researchers are now realizing that skipping the lactation phase would be problematic for mothers’ health. In fact, not breastfeeding after giving birth seems to put women at higher risk for breast and ovarian cancer, diabetes, cardiovascular disease and many other serious health conditions.

If you read a bottle of formula you will find scary ingredients  such as dairy. I will write a post on why this is so harmful for babies under 6months and why its so bad for humans in general.

Sugar! thats right people, Sugar for your baby!!!Tragically, many infant formulas are more than 50 percent sugar — 43 percent being corn syrup solids, which means they’re also high in fructose. Metabolically, consuming fructose is very similar to alcohol on a chronic basis, so there appears to be a surprising similarity between giving your infant a can of soda, or a bottle of most conventional infant formulas.

High Oleic Safflower Oil
This ingredient is commonly used in processed food. The reason why manufacturers use high oleic safflower oil is to extend the shelf life of their products.
Soy Oil
It’s extracted from soybean seeds and used as a base in paints and printer ink because of its drying property; meaning that it hardens when exposed to air. Soybeans are on the top list of GMO crops which makes it an inexpensive ingredient and available to manufacturers year-round. According to Dr. Mercola, this is one of the most harmful ingredients in processed foods.

upric Sulfate
Cupric sulfate is a pesticide, herbicide and fungicide. It is classified as an irritant, dangerous to the environment, and harmful. Here are some common uses:
Added to swimming pools to prevent algae overgrowth
Used to treat parasitic infections in aquarium fish
Used as a snail removal solution in aquariums
Used to preserve wood
Used in anemia blood tests
Used in chemistry experiments
Exposure to this “ingredient” can lead to many health problems.also is lacking in other key components that breast milk naturally provides. Chief among these are probiotics, friendly bacteria that help your body to thrive. In Greek, the term pro means “for life,” and the large amount of careful research surrounding these healthful microorganisms suggests that they are an integral part of your, and your child’s, well-being. 

 Breast milk is a natural source of probiotics, so babies who are breastfed receive an ideal source of your first immune-building good bacteria, and as a result also tend to have intestinal microflora in which beneficial bifidobacteria predominate over potentially harmful bacteria.

Some infant formulas do contain added probiotics, but they are going to be inferior to those that are found naturally in breast milk. That was enough to scare me far away from that powdered sugar bomb. And Im glad I did, the bond we share when we breastfeed is something you can’t explain, its pure joy, connection I feel as if we connect on some higher level.

  (Tandem nursing brother and sister in photo)

I chose to breastfeed I feel it was best for me and baby, as a mother it is your decision to make what is best for your child, no one else can make the choice. Just remember to always do your research. And if you breastfeed, Don’t hide! the world needs to see this is natural. we need to Normalize breastfeeding!

-Julia

Preschool

So today was my daughter 1st day back at the preschool she goes to. I am so proud of her I drop her off no tears just a hug and a kiss goodbye and grabbed the teachers hand and went to circle time. I feel as if she is growing up to fast cause i know that soon i will be dropping her off at school school and he brother will be at preschool. Just seeing my little girl walk in like the big girl that she is makes me feel so proud. I take her to preschool so she can have fun and be around kids and to get a break from her brother at home. When I picked up my daughter she could not stop talking about her school and what all she had done, the projects, painting coloring, and how she went down the slide and saw the castle, but she didnt go in.

She talked about her school all day long and when her daddy got home she couldnt stop telling him and i saw the smile on his face knowing that his little girl loved going to school and at the end of their little chat she looks up at him and said ” I go to school like you do daddy” with a big smile on her face. then she said ” I love you daddy!!” Its moments like those I know I’m doing something write.

~Stormie.

Gay marriage and our 1st Amendment 

I know I’ll get a lot of hate from this, but I do hope the one thing I have left is my freedom of speech!

They have tried to take our guns away and now their trying to take our religion away!

I do not hate anyone not do I think less of anyone because of race, religion, or sexual preference. So with that said this is my rant.

I have never stood for gays but I’ve never stood against them. I believe we all deserve to love the life we desire whatever makes us happy as long as no ones getting hurt in the process. If gays want to marry let them Marry; what they do on earth is not for us to judge or say it’s wrong,But God. We are all sinners. When the gay marriage law was passed I didn’t bat an eye. There were a ton of haters and a lot of Nasty words being thrown around at them which I wasn’t happy about. But now they they are seen as equals now that the hiding is no more they have taken steps beyond their boundaries. Those that were bashed and cursed attacked by the public are now the attackers, and they are attacking religion. So many people are being put behind bars because of their religion what about our first amendment! Religion is more important than your hurt feelings! I’m sorry but it’s true. If I’m not going to help you get married because I don’t believe in it don’t cry about till I’m locked away; go find someone who will help you! I’ve come to the conclusion that gays are just big crybabies throwing temper tantrums, and acting out! And honestly I’m tired of hearing about it. They all need a good switch to their behinds! Not all clearly just those that seem to be acting way out of hand over this. It seems like so many are giving gays a bad name. I know a lot that are amazing people and would never try to take religion away . But all we hear about now are those trying to change our views and beliefs. This rant isn’t towards all gays so please don’t be offended. I am a Christian and yes there are a lot of so called Christians out there who are the most hateful people I’ve known I would not consider them true Christians but again I’m not here to judge anyone. I believe we should all love in peace and respect everyone no matter who or what we are or what our religious beliefs are.

-Julia

you know your a mom when….

We all wake up to something different in the morning. I wake up to my son saying where is momma or my daughter yelling MOMMY!!!! who ever wakes up first will wake the other one up and the one who was not ready to get up is a big cranky butt as i like to call it. Then my kids starts fighting over something that goes like this ” MOM he is not sharing” or my favorite is “MOM he is taking my blanket.” As all this is going on I’m still trying to wake up or go to the bathroom and even pour my coffee some days. Being a mom is truly a blessing and I love being a mom but my mornings are super crazy most days and i know the morning is gonna become even more crazy cause my little one is gonna start school on Thursday, so I have to start getting ready or it but i really dont want to. But in the end i know im a mom when….

I put on a black shirt cause when I do my son or daughter will have a runny nose or get tooth paste on my shirt and i will end up wearing it all day cause i wont have time to change or ill forget that I have a stain on my shirt until my husband says something to me.

OR! when I put my pants on my son will have something on his hands and get it all over me and of course all this happens in the morning!! my son normally gets food or ketch-up,milk and my favorite yogurt. but oatmeal is the worse when he wipes it all over me it just rolls down my pants. but while all this is happening im trying to drink my coffee that i have re-heated like 5 times but its only half way gone but then of course i for get about my coffee once and again but in the end i just give up on drinking. but there are other things that prove your a mom like when…..

Photo on 2015-08-31 at 14.06     you wear the mommy pony tail all the time. Or have half of your make up done we have all been there before or no make up like most moms do. One of my favorite you know your a mom moment is when you talk on the phone and end up talking to your toddler more then the person on the phone lol.

Even if the mornings are rough and it seems like I’ve lost a food fight battle almost every morning i still wouldn’t change it for the world because i know deep down they are little only once. Its crazy to think that one day ill miss the poop or pee on my pants and not notice it till my husband says something or finding toys stuck down in my boots and my toes getting stepped on by running playing feet. I’m gonna blink and one day they will be grown and ill just have memories.

~stormie